Two and everything's "mine". Not only is everything his but everyone else's possessions are also "mine". And for the record, his opinions are also "mine". Not that mine is a bad thing, if you want James to eat his dinner then all you need to do is take his food away and say "mine". He reclaims it very quickly.
Here we are approaching the terrible twos with much vigour – so much vigour in fact that he decided to start a little earlier, like six months' earlier. I'm only writing this now because I'm scared I might forget these strange tantrums, most of which end with him face down on the floor oblivious to who might be ignoring him at that moment. This is all normal and James is a very normal little boy. He's been mobile for the last year and at times can disappear very quickly. His affinity for his scooter makes this departure even faster.
Other than that he is a very affectionate younger brother who is closely watched by his older brother. He loves books and all that silly TV that we used to watch with Oliver that I hoped would disappear. Barney's back but might be playing second fiddle to Noddy and Thomas (the tank engine). Right now Thomas is HUGE!!!!!!!!!! And fortunately for us we have a Thomas book which goes to bed with him every night. The nightly routine involves reading the same(!) books, well not reading more like discussing the pictures. His favourites the RaaRaa book, pig book, bear book, and potty book. This would go on all night if I didn't find some excuse to put him in his cot.
Then there's the language, he's a complete mimic and is incorporating these words into his daily conversation. He knew Mama and Dada a long time ago but wouldn't say his brother's name. One morning whilst on holiday we were woken up by James' "Ahva, Ahva". He now knew his brother's name. We often hear him say "Ahva bath, or Ahva cry". And then there's Thuli and Shona. Shona is very important in his life and has taken a brotherly role which is very appreciated by James.
For me, James is the younger son every father could wish for. He is loving, affectionate, warm and has the most infectious laugh I have ever heard. He is a happy little boy who is loved by everyone around him. The terrible twos are upon us but there's probably more humour in them than anything else. He is a vital part of our lives and I look forward to everyday.
Happy birthday dearest JimJam and for the record you are MINE!!!!
The picture above is his aunt Frances and him reading the Raa Raa book. As I mentioned, still a firm favourite.
James' nominated musician is James Phillips. Did I mention that Mr Phillips babysat James' mother in the 80s? I only ever saw him once on the Voelvry Toer and I didn't know what I was seeing at the time. If you did the see the tour then perhaps you'll remember this.
04 – Various Artists – Bernoldus Niemand – Hou My Vas Korpor
The very first CD I ever bought (I'd bought vinyl up to that point) was Elmore James' greatest hits. I got into Elmore James via Jeremy Spencer and Fleetwood Mac. Jeremy was and still is a huge god of mine. Elmore is incredible and I recently attempted a performance of this song. My attempt to match Elmore's perfection is still a little lacking.
07 – Elmore James – I Can't Hold Out